Hi merry I agree with so many things that you said especially about beating it. No one has that answer not even us. When i tell people i have cancer most just say how sorry to hear that and then i or they start talking other things. I go to mayo on april 22 for pulmonary testing and my ct scan so hope to answers on my left lung. You extra worried about the virus since we are high risk. I do what i can to protect myself and the rest is in Gods hands. My girls have been and are a great help. Hugs merry and keep in touch.