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Please help: Undiagnosed chronic pain of the limbs

Chronic Pain | Last Active: Dec 13, 2018 | Replies (36)

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@oregongirl

I can "hear and feel" the frustration in your posts. I'm so sorry you've had such negative experiences with doctors of all kinds over the years. At 77 years old you're not likely to change your mind. Your unhappiness with the medical system has led you to approach your life and health with exploration of alternative methods of help. That is good for you, but since we're all different may not work for others here. I encourage everyone I know to do research on diagnoses of their health conditions or prescribed medications, using Mayo Clinic or other reputable sites. The more informed we are as patients, the better prepared we are to make responsible decisions a out our health.

Having worked in non-medical positions for 7 years in hospitals, I know that doctors are smart people who have spent many years (10+) learning their professions. But they are not perfect and they make mistakes. It would not be possible for them to know everything about each illness, condition, or person with whom they deal daily. A major part of what they do is seek to eliminate potential problems through tests. That's why if at the end of their tests you're not satisfied with what they found or didn't find, then you must search for a specialist to do further diagnosis. Mayo is excellent in this regard as are other clinics that specialize in diagnosis. I respect my doctors, but I also ask lots of questions and occasionally challenge something they say or their misinterpretation of what I've said. I think my job with my doctor is to give her/him as much information as possible about my problem, and work with him/her to find the solution.

You are a lucky person to be as healthy as you are and I admire your outlook on living a full life for as long as you are here. I agree with that philosophy. I keep hoping Texas and the Federal Government wake up and approve Marijuana use nationwide. It is so much better than other kinds of pain relief. I have joined the group NORML, that works to legalize Marijuana. You may want to join as well. Have a good night Oregon girl.

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I'm agree with you, yep. Also, sometimes another approach, another way to look at a problem is helpful. I have a friend with chronic headaches. He's gone the medical route with surgery to his sinus cavity which "might" have been the problem, acupuncture, diet changes, cbd, etc. After two years, he's improved but not cured. However, he has emotional issues with his wife and his past, and yet, doesn't want to explore the psychological/emotional issues. I think he's too lazy. Sounds harsh, but fierce self inventory in relationships with a possible connect to illness is a rough path and not for the faint at heart. Sometimes looking at the under side of those rocks of life really can revel useful information that can lead to healing.