Marie & @jakedduck1 - It won't be 49 years married for a few months yet, but you're right - he's as well-trained as is possible with a man - I'll keep him. He just put up with my daughter & me dragging him on a weekend outing with 2 toddlers and a dog...then came home and helped with the unpacking.
And he's really good at taking care of me - especially after a dozen or so surgeries.
Sue