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Just Want to Talk | Last Active: Apr 4, 2023 | Replies (3672)

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@jimhd

@parus @lioness @merpreb @contentandwell and whoever is in this discussion.

This is take 3. The first and second tries suddenly went who knows where. So,I'm moving from my phone to my tablet.

So far we're doing fine. Living out in the country, houses are at least a quarter of a mile apart, so we already are practicing social distancing. We only go to town for groceries, every 10 days, and do our banking and post office business if we need to. We make our last stop at one of the drive thru fast food restaurants, and take it home to eat. I know that doing those things presents a level of risk, but everyone is taking the virus seriously and as a rule are following the rules. So far, no cases are reported in our county, but that certainly doesn't mean it won't happen here. There are huge Facebook and Apple call centers at the edge of our town, each employing hundreds of people, and that would almost certainly raise the level of risk.

Our son is a truck driver for a plumbing supplier in Indianapolis, so has some risk when he makes deliveries. Their 7 year old daughter is living with her other grandparents until the pandemic is past. His wife is a nurse practitioner and sees patients in several nursing homes, a number of whom have tested positive for covid 19. She's at a huge risk, but for many of her patients she's the only health professional who makes the rounds for face to face visits.

Our daughter's husband is in the Coast Guard in Alameda, which is in the San Francisco bay area. Our daughter and her two girls who are 8 months old and 3 years old, are finding things to do. But there's a limit to what they can do for however many weeks or months without getting serious cabin fever. Her husband has to go to work as usual - we hope he won't be exposed to the virus on base.

It means a lot to us that both of our kids call and message every day. Connection, even online, is a key part of maintaining our sanity and helping us control fear and anxiety in this time of uncertainty. Conversation with the friends we make through this Mayo Clinic Connect can and does help us in many different ways. It helps us to stay grounded and helps us maintain a healthy perspective, and at the same time we can learn all kinds of things that we'd never thought of until we read about it here. At least that's what I've experienced.

Y'all stay safe and sane.

Jim

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Good to hear from you @jimhd It sounds as if you and your family are doing all you can to stay safe. That's smart that your granddaughter is with her other grandparents since her mother is in a risky position. I guess anyone who is out there working is in a risky position to some extent.
Stay safe, and if this miserable virus does hit closer to home I hope you will try to eliminate the trips out of your home.

I agree with you, we are so fortunate to be able to communicate via texts and calls, and Facetime with our kids. My son calls pretty much daily, and I text with my daughter daily.

@funcountess Lucky you! I love the Santa Barbara area. We stayed there once, at The Inn on Summer Hill. It was very lovely but we regretted not being within walking distance of Santa Barbara itself. Now that neither my step-son lives in CA (SF area) or my son (LA area), our trips to CA are history.
JK

@jimhd Good to hear everyone is safe Pray your son in law will be safe 🙏