@gingerw- I agree-something is very very wrong with you. I think that you have to stop accumulating diseases and start shopping and accumulating a new wardrobe. There is nothing like a new top or outfit, new shoes then a piece of chocolate to get you through your new make-over. We'll both be in Rochester early this year so we can explore the shops, salons and shoe stores. I will be there to guide you and help pick out things. Don't worry, I'm with you on this. It's actually painless and reduces stress. How else may I help my friend?