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Just Want to Talk | Last Active: Apr 4, 2023 | Replies (3672)

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@parus that's such great news! What a sigh of relief you must have breathed. Your son sounds like mine. When I fell I never mentioned it to him until after I found out two days later that I had a fracture. He was upset that I hadn't told him I had fallen! As if!

@jenniferhunter and @sundance6 You are so right about giving positive feedback to people who do well. I came to realize that when I was a manager in a nice 4 diamond inn and restaurant. People love to complain, but it's the rare person who takes the trouble to compliment. Now I always try to remember to do that.
JK

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@contentandwell So true about people loving to complain. I am guilty of this as well and do my share in the connect community. When I am out and about I always try to find something positive to say to the employees who put up with so much abuse from customers. I am always in the corner of the employee. I saw one break down in tears when a customer was so hateful to her-for no reason other than he could. I told her his behavior said nothing about her and a whole lot about him. The customers behind me were kind as well and we all agreed the previous customer was having a bad day which gave "him" a reason as someone peed in his Wheaties...We also agreed he should be banned from the store. The ugly situation ended in a smile and a hug.
I, as many of us, have worked with the public and it is worse now than when I was doing so. I have not ever know people to be so rude and unkind. Seems we live in a world where a smile and kind word can get one shot. A lose lose situation in many ways.
Okay I have one again veered off the topic of gratitude. When I signed on this morning I was in tears and not wanting to face another day in this mean, ugly and vicious world. Thanks to my friends here I have found the strength to continue on. Now this is something to be grateful for!!!!!