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Just Want to Talk | Last Active: Apr 4, 2023 | Replies (3672)

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@debbraw

Hi Merry @merpreb and JK @contentandwell - thanks for your encouragement on the cataract surgery my husband had. He is doing very well and the doctor is really pleased. The problem we are having is more related to his dementia. He really can't understand the restriction on his activity. He loves to be outdoors digging in the garden and watering the plants. The doctor wants him away from the dirt and not bending over. So naturally, he sees the situation as one in which I've taken him hostage and won't let him enjoy his life. It will improve, but the first week after the first surgery was a nightmare and this one is shaping up in a similar way. The good news is that he can see better!

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@debbraw Trying to convince him to leave those pieces and bits in the garden until he can actually safely do it must be a challenge! Now that he can see better he can see all the things that he wants to do, am I right? I'm glad the surgery went well and there are no complications. That sounds like that would be the a difficult place to be if it happened. We're here for you! Gather around the table here, we all care for you.
Ginger

@debbraw I had forgotten that your husband has dementia. I don’t recall that I had any restrictions but it was about 10 years ago.
JK