OK.. I think I am failing Gratitude 101! I almost started this post with a note that said "I've had a miserable day". Then I read all of the posts here and you all inspired me to get myself together. So now I am changing it. Gratitude is an attitude they say! I will tell you this: I had a very hectic weekend. Then I spent a big part of a miserable day at the attorney's office trying to get our advance directives re-done and updated. So now, I am grateful that it's over. I'm home, there is a gentle rain and mild weather, I'm safe, and I have leftovers in the fridge so I don't need to cook. That's all I need for today! But PS: being in this group dragged me into this attitude kicking and screaming. Left to myself I would have been having a pity party, but reading all the notes here made me realize that we really can find SOMETHING to be grateful for even on the day you update your will and health care proxy!!