Hoping things go better with your husband...sometimes they need a little direction. Do you go to any cancer support meetings? If so, can you take him with you - he may get a better understanding. My hubby used to get frustrated with me while in my 40s I underwent surgical menopause and the hot flashes and sweats were abysmal for years then a few years ago he went through prostate cancer and had to have female hormones prior to treatment...he learned real fast what I had been going undergoing and became more understanding after that...when he forgets, I remind him!