@judymcd, I like your question "Why is your job to keep others HAPPY?" It's a question that can lead to useful self-reflection.

However, on Connect members are asked to be respectful and inclusive. This means that we shouldn't tell people what they should or shouldn't do, either in terms of medical advice or religious beliefs. The Community Guidelines offer more thoughts on how members keep the community welcoming, safe, inclusive and respectiful https://connect.mayoclinic.org/page/about-connect/tab/community-guidelines/

Judy,
I encourage you to take part in this discussion about spirituality on Connect:
> How Spirituality Can Help Stress https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/how-spirituality-can-help-stress/