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Depression and Anxiety at an older age

Depression & Anxiety | Last Active: May 26 11:44am | Replies (625)

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@jakedduck- Without getting into specific words your implications, how your words come across to others, can be hurtful because they imply that we just need to pull ourselves up by the bootstraps and be strong and if we don't than something is wrong with us. You know that even if you do not use those specific words, they way you say them, how you phrase them can imply something different and this is what I am talking about.
There are no alternative treatments that can cure depression. I said this before. Yes, there are alternative treatments, they aren't cures though, they are just treatments.
You are correct- there is no known testing or known cause for chemical imbalance, a term that I used. Please read this link
https://www.healthline.com/health/chemical-imbalance-in-the-brain#causes
@jakedduck- Your method of controlling your panic attacks is a very personal one, but panic attacks are not depression.
It's difficult to express to someone who has never experienced depression what it is. I describe it as best as I could in my post about PTSD:
https://my20yearscancer.com/ptsd-lung-cancer/
I think that unless we are doctors we shouldn't try to explain our understanding of research, percentages, etc. We just don't know enough to do so. Relaying our experiences that are appropriate - meaning that you have experience in what is being talked about and supportive phrases is what connect is all about.
With depression Jake, you just can't try and relate you have to have had it to do so. I hope that you never have to experience it so that you can.
Everyone realizes that you love and care about them here. But sometimes it's best to just sit back, listen and read what we have to say without trying to fix us when you really have not experienced what we have and can not be supportive with what is being talked about. That will show us more love than you can imagine.
Feel free to message me if you still want to discuss this.

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@merpreb Thank you for sharing your writing of PTSD. I find myself destroying personal possessions and making numerous trips to the dumpster trying to rid myself of all parts of me. I had not a clue what had gotten into me. I still get into these places where the past pummels. I have done a lot of cleansing in this manner. Had beautiful collections of books-yes, they are gone. Personal artwork, art supplies, the list could go on. I can understand so clearly your words that have described PTSD so vividly. I go off of the radar completely. I have found that I can come to this community as I can do so in the safety of my own home. I have learned many things here about keeping myself safe. I have a little grandson that loves his grandma and I hear his little voice I know I cannot let him done because of days long gone now and yet so vivid at times.
When the PTSD takes hold it is NOT simply telling myself I am no longer there. Would that it were so easy.
Could feel your pain as I have been there and still return as those triggers are there. Some I am not aware of. I am still learning. Thanks again for helping me realize I am not losing my mind.

@merpreb Hello Merry:

I appreciate your posting your blog and also the post from healthline.com and the articles there about chemical imbalance. Really good ideas and writing.