Hello all this is Beryl .....I was sitting here reading some of the posts and realized that it makes such a difference to see that there are lots of people in the same boat and worse.....I always felt a bit of a freak as people round you really don't know what the dickens is wrong with you .....I used to find myself floundering and making excuses for myself so it didn't feel so bad ......Now I don't Mayo Connect has given me confidence .....thank you guys for sharing and unfreaking me.....ha ha ......