Anyone dealing with Atypical Ductal Hyperplasia (ADH)?

I’ve chosen NOT to do nipple delay (saving) surgery and instead have them removed too. Why? Excuse all cancer risk. And. Why have an extra surgery??worry about necrosis, scar tissue, asymmetrical positioning or nipple falling below center of the implant etc? Added bonus ? No more padded bras to conceal nipples beneath certain tops. I’ll do tattooing eventually - which I find feminine, sensual and too empowering and powerful.
I chose NOT to simply monitor - I wish To live. Out loud. And not worry. And not take Rx meds and have to have MRIs every 6 months. And all that stress. My personal choice is to take these measures now. Vs 49/51 chance of doing it anyway AND having to fight cancer too.
Please understand this is all merely my 2cents worth. You’ll find YOUR path. My v best of wishes darling xxx

doyoga - I had bi lateral mastectomies and I chose no reconstruction and have no regrets. My breasts at 55+ years old had turned on me in a couple of ways. First, they decided to get cancer and 'stuff' (ha ha) and second they were really unattractive and frankly uncomfortable. Of course, I was older, married many years, they were never much to look at anyway and I had truly started to hate bras. I was surprised that the easiest part of this process was deciding not to get any reconstruction, but it was. Everything else took a toll but only once since the surgery have I even mourned the loss of my breasts. Sure, I wish I never had cancer but I'm so glad I don't have to shop for bras or put one on to run out to get my mail or anything. I bought the prosthetic and have never actually put it on. I resemble a walking pear now but I'm learning all about layering, necklines and how to dress as a truly flat chested woman.
One question I have for you please -- I thought I'd do tattoos but I'm concerned about using any color that would show through lighter colored clothing. I do choose slightly thicker fabrics and darker colors but I wonder how that might work with say, a white t shirt? What are your thoughts? I'm still on the tattoo 'fence'. Hugs...........

@cindylb ..... good q :). And hugs back xxx
One must consider too some of the potential risks of tattoos (allergy to dyes etcetc - rare ... but...... hey, we’re all familiar with just how meaningless THAT term might be if we’re ‘the’ 1 🤷🏻‍♀️😊)....
For ME.... I find the tattoo option empowering, adorning, Body art. And not at all something I’d feel the need to hide..... a way of taking back proud control. All of this journey can be a mind game, yes? What stories we tell ourselves(and BELIEVE) to either boost or diminish self confidence and esteem. And how much/where we get to buck (oftentime ridiculous) cultural expectations/‘norms.
If I wore a sheer, MAYBE I’d wear a cami to layer???? Probs not. I see this as no different than ANY woman’s choice (with breasts, or nipples, or tats, or NOT...) ..... am I comfortable with that sheer/white AT THAT moment, for THAT occasion, or not? Sometimes (being me 🤷🏻‍♀️😊😬) I ‘d likely intentionally wear something ‘showy’ of the tattoo art precisely TO invite discussion and awareness.... and buck silly societal ‘norms’ ....other times..... yeah, NOT.
When you had breasts, the decision was the same, no? Were u comfortable with the sheer/white garment..... or not??? (Hypothetical q for YOUR introspection, not necessarily answering ME 😊😊😊😘🙏🏼💓).... xxxxxxxxx infinitely

Walked this path just this past December. Stereotactic failed to get the calcifications seen on Mammogram. ADH found incidentally in the ‘missed’ biopsies. Had savi scout and lumpectomy Jan 3rd. Calcifications benign but more ADH AND ADL.
diffuse enough to put my risk of development into cancer at 49%. I too am negative for BRCA. Have only a paternal aunt who died at 32.
I’ve elected to have prophylactic bilateral mastectomy, including nipple removal. Above pectoral round implants. (I’m v athletic - need my muscles more than my breasts). With Aloderm (cadaver donated skin complex to buffer between my skin and the implant. I’m thin - no fat layer to either graft from, or cushion the implant). Non textured (aka smooth) implants as I don’t wish to take on the possible additional risk of contracting lymphoma (seemingly associated with textured implants). I would’ve preferred teardrop shaped implants(I think) but they’d have to have been textured in order to stay in place. And (see above on textured) Surgery set for March.

Lots of researching. Interviewing multiple surgeons. Introspection.
It’s the right choice for me.
And rest assured you’ll find the right one for u too.
There are a number of FB closed groups that offer terrific support too. Lmk if you’d care fir the names.
Hugs. Keep breathing.

monical..........We're all glad you found this forum as well. It's been a great source of support for me. I had a pretty 'traditional' treatment plan......stereotactic biopsy, excisional biopsy - ALH (lobular vs. ductal) on my left breast. That was 5 years ago. 3 years ago (following testing each 6 months I found a lump, which was a cyst. The doctors sort of wrote that off but I'm glad I insisted on an ultrasound which found a suspected cancer, which in fact was invasive cancer, Stage 1. )
I found the process of the two biopsies and MRI's to be a lot more painful and anxiety producing in many ways that the bi lateral mastectomy I chose. (My issue was Lobular Hyperplasia in the left breast and lumpectomy ultimately and the invasive cancer in the right breast.....so off with my breasts. I am holding at 3 years and counting now with no new signs of cancer.)
As you move along this journey there will be tests and most of them have some level of fear and possible 'issues'. I didn't like the MRI and the contrast dye made me feel very odd (during the test) but it's very sensitive and picks up lots of smaller things that might be missed otherwise. Just something to possibly consider. I will have a follow up MRI possibly this year or next just to make sure I too worry about the effect of the dyes and possible complications but sometimes they can detect something early and that's a big plus.
Hugs..........people here have very diverse and helpful experiences. Keep posting and people will be there for you.

@monical .... FB support groups I’ve found helpful xxx

@doyoga, thank you for all of the support groups that you posted.

@cindylb, thank you for your response and for sharing your experience. I'm not sure what I will do regarding the MRI...the outcome of this biospy will most likely help me to decide. I feel like I have been sucked into a medical vortex and each decision carries so much weight...