@cindylb ..... good q :). And hugs back xxx
One must consider too some of the potential risks of tattoos (allergy to dyes etcetc - rare ... but...... hey, we’re all familiar with just how meaningless THAT term might be if we’re ‘the’ 1 🤷🏻‍♀️😊)....
For ME.... I find the tattoo option empowering, adorning, Body art. And not at all something I’d feel the need to hide..... a way of taking back proud control. All of this journey can be a mind game, yes? What stories we tell ourselves(and BELIEVE) to either boost or diminish self confidence and esteem. And how much/where we get to buck (oftentime ridiculous) cultural expectations/‘norms.
If I wore a sheer, MAYBE I’d wear a cami to layer???? Probs not. I see this as no different than ANY woman’s choice (with breasts, or nipples, or tats, or NOT...) ..... am I comfortable with that sheer/white AT THAT moment, for THAT occasion, or not? Sometimes (being me 🤷🏻‍♀️😊😬) I ‘d likely intentionally wear something ‘showy’ of the tattoo art precisely TO invite discussion and awareness.... and buck silly societal ‘norms’ ....other times..... yeah, NOT.
When you had breasts, the decision was the same, no? Were u comfortable with the sheer/white garment..... or not??? (Hypothetical q for YOUR introspection, not necessarily answering ME 😊😊😊😘🙏🏼💓).... xxxxxxxxx infinitely