Good morning Jaje, yes, David and I both participated in the Epilepsy Society forum. I log onto that site as Wendygrunch ( a silly pseudonym). Just to update ypu all; David has been at the Epilepsy society for a week so far, having his meds overhauled under close supervision. He's actually quite content there. There are a dozen or so inpatients, mostly younger people, so David is in the rare position of being the norm, not the exception, as a young man with yet to be control seizures. There is a large day room where most of the patients spend their days together; playing pool, watching films, eating together as a community etc. His meds are being changed quite rapidly, which obviously couldn't be safely done at home. I'm taking my mother to visit him on Monday. The only drawback for me is that it is a 2 and a half hour drive, but I think that it's actually been good for David to have some relative independence.