Crazyelf: living with someone who loves their salt and almost a Stage 4 you have a rough road ahead of you. Twenty years ago when I was given the news that I was at stage 4, I knew I had to do something. Beef is Not a friend of anyone's kidneys. I went on a vegetarian diet and was able to stay off dialysis for 3 years. I had a transplant 11-1/2 years ago, I have found that the best way now to keep my kidney happy is the vegetarian diet (Life Style).

Unfortunately, the VA never dreamed of what life would be like for their vets after they left the service. They never planned ahead so our vets are not getting the medical treatment they should be getting. Getting a doctor that knows anything about kidneys is very hard.

The following is my opinion and mine alone: Someone needs to sit down with your husband and find out what he wants for the next 5+ years. Then you will have a better idea what to do. If he wants to do as he is doing, you may want to get a lawyer and write a Will. If he wants to live a long and happy life, the two of you, as well as your family and friends, will have to be willing to make some, Life Style, changes together.

Good Luck, mlmcg