Dear @Chris Trout, Volunteer Mentor,@artscaping, no, this trait is not found exclusively in Neurodiverse people. How joyful we are when we find others like us who understand the fine detailing of this aspect of our personalities. I am deliriously happy when a character in a television show or movie displays these and other characteristics that run rampant in our Spectrum Community!
I think it is extremely important that we value our differences and build upon them. Especially as it concerns our children and how they are raised. Children need to see their differences reflected in the arts, literature, and all other aspects of their education. They need to be able to look and say "That's just like me!"
I can tell you from my experience as a child growing up, I would have benefited greatly in having that philosophy of teaching in my educational experience. As the Grandparent of an Autistic little 6 year old, I can tell you that I am a Mama Bear for him. I love him with all my heart. There is nothing I would not do for him.
I remain closely connected to him, even though we are miles apart for now. His mother and I are very close. She may not agree with everything I try to share with her. ( She can be quite skeptical, actually, but that just makes me proud of her.) But she understands that like her, I only want the best for him. I don't want him to struggle like I did.
So happy to meet you here on Mayo Clinic Connect!!! Your gifts and talents, your areas of expertise, are warmly welcomed here! Keep adjusting those picture frames...I know I will! Ha!
Love and light to you, my new friend....
Mamacita Jane
@mamcita, Thank you for responding. Like you, it is the children and grandchildren that mystify us. Their struggles are painful for us. I have a lovely granddaughter. She just turned 21 last Saturday. Even after 6 months in residence at Rogers Hospital, Wisconsin her OCD issues of perfectionism and scrupulosity are still playing havoc with her chance to pursue a college education or have a normal young adult life. And as you said, even though I don't always agree with my daughter, her strength as a single parent and her total commitment to two girls to the exclusion of her own life is admirable. Have some joy today, Chris