Love you, too, @mamacita !

Mamacita I just bought a book dodging energy vampires and the first bit of the book ID me as an empathy and an old soul em path whom over gives and which has set me up to ripped off by energy vampires and Narcissists .this book dodging energy vampires by Christiane Northrup M.D oby gyn AMERICAN .The other clues is that the reason narcissists and energy vampires lodge on and love autistic and em paths is the old wounds and deep wounds from childhood which shape our lives .they then influence how we react and how deeply we believe in our abilities.these influence's that has made us as auties is shame and guilt and we will be shamed by someone with an agenda of manipulating or controlling us even i autistic groups .these acts aren't meant for our well being forcing us to supposedly fit in to their agenda or mold of expectations..the truly damaging shame to us as children as an autistic comes from people's whom are meant tp to protect us
the 3 archetypal wounds are shame abandonment and betrayal our tribe is family,autie groups religion or professional.or any group one relies on for support and identity .as children even as auties we begin to self doubt and loose trust in ourselves .these wounds form our belief system by which we operate these are the ones below our radar subconsciously and come from our parents and siblings and grandparents and also genetically imprinted .when as auties or empath when we badly self doubt and dont trust we over give and need to prove our worth and need to belong or wanted . comes from no family will help us except ourselves or we give up .we then over give and become acts to fit in or serve others or shut down and become door mats and we hide ourselves and what we believe.but we have to learn and instil resilience into children to use these to give us the stamina and stubbornness to be in my case a senior hospital scientist and to work bloody hard and focus .