We are trying to talk and move on. He thinks my dead husband is here telling him what an evil person I am so he can justify getting out? I don't know what he is trying to do. This is so deep. He now has a drawing of a bombshelter and trip wire. He blames his smothering on wanting to protect because I need to be alone and not by his side at all times. I mean from dropping off his daughter to school to cleaning out the car. If I am not there, I am cheating. I am not his ex wife or the first ex. I am beginning to wonder if they really did cheat or he just has this personality and manifest all of this. Like I said, this is deep. to deep for my brain. I don't have the patience to sort all of this out. This makes me feel selfish. ??