Yez, yez, and yes, @gingerw. I cringe inside whenever someone says, "Oh, he's a little bit Autistic." What they don't understand is, it's not a disease or condition, or a state of being "damaged goods."
It is a differently wired brain, just like there are PC's and Macs. If an adult or a child suffers severe pain and anguish, it is because we have not figured out which sensitivities are giving them trouble and aporopriate solutions for accommodating their specific needs. To further complicate matters, those who have learned to successfully "mask" throughout their lives are fortunate in that they learned early on to mimc Neurotypical behavior. This takes an enormous amount of energy to do.
I watched tv and read voraciously to try to fit in. But as it has been said so many times before, "Why try to fit in when you were born to stand out?"
My entire family is super "sensitive." Some of us have outed ourselves as being on the Spectrum, when some of our Grands, nieces, and nephews were diagnosed.
As they say, the truth really does make you free. Whether you comment, initiate a conversation, or just scroll through this site, please know that you are so welcome here. This is a no judgement zone. This is a safe place. Grab a cup of coffee tomorrow morning and let's talk!
@mamacita My father always told me I was "different", but never said how. I did not have any support system from my family growing up, but recall a friend of my mother who took me under her wing, and supported me. That made my mother furious. And one teacher in high school who "saw" the real me, and tried to help as he could.
Yes, to all who would sit on the sideline, nod your head in agreement, or read comments with tears in your eyes as you recognize yourself or a loved one, know that this is a safe place to express yourself. Here's to our commonality, in all the various forms!
Ginger