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I just read all the posts on this thread. I have been diagnosed as on the Spectrum. When I was working, many times I was "written up" by supervisors who said my work was great, and knowledge of the subjects was outstanding, but "couldn't get along with people, and refused to be sociable". Sheesh! My reply was always, "you hired me to do a job, not be friends with everyone." They said I didn't smile enough. It's been that story all my life. When I finally had the diagnosis, I thought about forcing my employer to acknowledge it, and bring a complaint under ADA. But realized I didn't really want to go through all the hassle. So, everyday I am gentle on myself, and seek to honor my thoughts and feelings. Mamacita wrote about "Thinking in Pictures" by Temple Grandin. She is an amazing person, and I always have done just that, which allows me to relate to animals in a special way, horses in particular.
Looking forward to being here!
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@mamacita, I always knew I was "different", even as a very young child. Being emotionally abused by my mother didn't help, but I realize she was dealing with life as best she could given her path. At the age of 65 now, my choices have never been mainstream, and most people are unsure how to interact with me. My work careers were in several fields, but I excelled working with animals, with numbers, and in the legal field. My energy is recharged when alone; crowds/groups make me uncomfortable. My senses are easily overloaded. My goal is to be of service to people, and make a difference, but on my terms ;)) I have several autoimmune issues, so fatigue is a faithful companion. No doubt we'll be "talking"
@gingerw , your post could easily have been mine. I grew up under a haze of wanting to be a part of a community, a group. I would do just about anything to fit in. Now, I don't have to. Whether it is my age or my eccentricities, I am happier than I have ever been. I am so glad you have joined our conversations! Looking forward to hearing from you more in the future. Talk to you soon!
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@gingerw ,Welcome, welcome! I am so delighted to have you here! When I first started working, back when the dinosaurs roamed, I made so many mistakes. I was embarrassed so much of the time, because I didn't know how to play their games. I wasn't diagnosed, but I just knew I was very different. I wanted to be the best, but I kept flubbing up. Through the years I learned to mask better to fit in. Still didn't have a clue. Things are so much better now. I am so glad you have found some answers and that you are enjoying your life. It's great to just be who you really are. Hope to "talk" with you again soon!