It is such a personal decision. You are doing the right thing, looking at all of your options, weighing all of the information. I had a lumpectomy with micro mets over five years ago. Chemo wasn’t recommended, but Tamoxifen was and I could only tolerate the side effects of that drug for two and a half years. I was in a support group for breast cancer and that support was tremendously helpful. I wish you all the best as you navigate this hard path.