Thank you for the reply! I have constantly pushed going outside of CT for help but she thinks it will be a waste of time. We went to Loyola last year which ended up being a huge waste of time and a killer for her out look. She's continues to go to Yale but no one wants to go above and beyond to treat her.

Don't want to go out of bounds, but keep on pushing. I see that you're in CT and as you know there are top hospitals in NYC. My suggestion would be to search for urology specialists associated with these hospitals and start making calls. Your wife may be so disheartened that she's giving up.

Thanks for the support and advice. I will continue to seek help. She's been to a few doctor's in NY and haven't had help but we need to keep making phone calls. Just have to find a way to keep her motivated.