@annedodrill44 Hi Anne, I think you hit it on the head with your idea that you don’t have anymore energy for the holidays! I’m 61, disabled, and live with my brother. We don’t have anyone to share the holidays with so I’ll just try and pretend that Thursday is another day. He doesn’t care, but I do! I’m divorced with no children and no other family. I guess i should be happy that I won’t have to expend energy hiding how I feel! I’m sorry, Anne, this is YOUR post-not mine. I guess I just had to let it out!