Reading some replies, it sounds like we’re in prison, saying to each other the litany of crimes we’ve committed and that’s why we were incarcerated. Maybe some of us will get off with good behavior! I think we have to think of ourselves as the ones who were diagnosed, the ones who have been pinched and prodded for all of our frailties and now we know more than most people. I have some perennials in my garden that come up every year after many years the blooms are not as good as that used to be but they still smell sweet the bees still come. I’m not going to dig them out and replace them. Anything that survived that long it’s a wonder!