Good morning @ret18. Several things I can tell you about this disease begin with getting rid of any soaps, laundry soap included that contain dyes and perfumes. These, for me, were true irritants. Keep the area clean and most importantly dry. Also, keep in mind that steroids could thin the skin over time so ask your gynecologist to either give you a mix of topical ointments or find a doctor that specializes in this disease. I started, luckily, with an oncologist who helped me TREMENDOUSLY. Because I carried my disease around, untreated, for so long my skin became paper thin and I had constant fractures of the skin that were very painful and caused scarring. Most recently, I found that CO2 laser therapy can help and it certainly has for me. Please don't hesitate to message me. I'd be happy to help in any way I can. Perhaps I can at least point you in the right direction. Keep in mind, everyone is different and just because something works for one, doesn't necessarily mean it will work for all. ***Keep your head up and I promise you there is help out there!!***