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Just Want to Talk | Last Active: Jan 29, 2018 | Replies (5)

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@2011panc I loved your post along with others. But I am sad and very resentful. As a child my parents and I did alot of tent camping. Now a wife of 48 years, we never go Anywhere, maybe 2 camp trips of our own (disaster) and three with church groups, those were fun because of other people, campfires and singing songs. My husband doesn't have an imaginative bone in his body, can,t put up a tent, don't have enough money, no longer own any camping supplies and I love to camp. Fresh smell of coffee in the morning, the smell of pines, the screech of bluejays ect. I just turned 70 and my husband is 79. Though I think at our age with mobility issues, a rented RV might be a better choice. Can't go anywhere, stuck in our mobile home as though we are just waiting to die. I've planned every vacation we've been on. I used to sit at work in the lunch room crying because I felt my husband had cement feet. I'm sorry for the griping but the ache inside is unbearable. Now with Fibro and spinal pain, it's like life is over for me. my husband can't walk ten feet without having to stop and take a breath. Just trying to honor my marriage vows.victorious69

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@virtuous69 Not to be concerned as complaining can be cathartic at times. You are not alone in your feelings. I also have fibro, scoliosis, DDD neck and lumbar. Plenty of time to do things I once enjoyed and a body that is a pain to carry with me as I do the necessities. I have always been a hard worker and even when I tell myself I can do things I soon realize many things I cannot. Still ambulatory and still can draw and paint some. Far better off than many. I was once married to a man like you describe. Nearly every thing was woman's work.