Talked with buyer, lawyer they are extending the agreement/contract out for final closing in Sept 2019 barring any new complications offered additional amount of down payment above the 10% but I said no - will have the cash rent for 2019. Just did not feel it was right in case anything goes haywire... I told lawyer if its the sisters I would definitely make sure the nursing home got it all for the 14+ years care for mother/step-mother plus the judgements against her for hospital bills she refused to pay ... I can walk away with nothing and find a way somehow to care for the son... just wish my house was restored and livable would be the simple solution....

Lawyer is goign through with the survey on the one property to separate the 5A off I hope it can be deeded off since no money will be involved with me bearing all the cost of the survey, appraisal lawyer fees and what ever else

I've got the property taxes finished paid for the year on the other two properties; found out the adverse possession lawyer
did not file properties into my name until Oct. 26 and default judgement was ordered Aug. 10th I hate what I am thinking since the son-in-law recommended the lawyer trying not to go there but....

my Culver house property taxes paid for too as did not pay the spring as needed the money to take son to Indy and friend to his CBC's and blood transfusion he was not happy that i opted not to pay but "Shit happens" and you do with what you got when family refused to help out...

Went to pay for the crematory house and specifications was changed for foundation raising the cost and funeral director was not informed - so he is making sure if takes effect mid-year or 1st of year and if the Masonic Lodge as a whole made the changes or just the one who issues out the gravesites nothing has been simple but I am not letting him absorb the extra cost deceased husband worked with cement/concrete and it gets costly I know and the $155-200 per graves times however many quoted to be poured for October can dig into ones pocket very heavily I want to be fair a bout this

Not started on how going to fix this place up as yet... trying to decide just how much its worth to do it since its a 1975 mobile home but it has to suffice for now... Got to see what the survey etc. going to cost before can dig in here got some scrape to haul off to start it...

Got my eye exam also scheduled for the 29th... I lost my glasses day made cremation arrangements and never did find them... friend had been badgering me to go have new ones for over 2 years finally got his wish but had to wait because not enough money to go around...

Hopefully things will settle down now.... praying for a mild winter... praying the van holds out... and know Miracles do happen... will make it through the winter It can not be any tougher than last winter :-)..... asl always I know God will provide and look over us....

Next dr./immunology on the 26th with Ct. on Dec. 13th and few days after dr./immunology again.....

A Happy Blessed Thanksgiving to all... will be alone and if not considering goign to the Eagles in WInamac where belong as they are having a free thanksgiving dinner. A lot to be thankful for things could be worse....