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Loss and Grief: How are you doing?
Loss & Grief | Last Active: Apr 7 12:18pm | Replies (932)Comment receiving replies
@reibur1951, thank you for keeping in touch!
First let me wish you a happy birthday 🎈 with a balloon. I hope that this next year is a good one for you.
I am sorry to hear that your vehicle is wearing out, that is a financial dilemma when you already have others isn't it?
I hope that your property issues all go as you hope they do and that you are able to sell the land and find something that will suit your needs. I also hope that your friend's son has an improved outlook with his upcoming appointment.
Will you let me know how his appointments go?
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Yes will - we get a phone report of the CT Scan before we go done on 5th but i always get the printed report as it says more I need to find a place to lay all out from day one I think there are 5-8 reports all together.
As for the vehicle it was wore out when we got it in May 2017 the so-called fried of the family lied to my friend oh he told of the minor problems it had but neglected the major ones a bad alternator & battery- was stuck out twice in less than 2 weeks after i titled/insured it etc. the on-in-law found the rusted cracked axle sometime late summer/fall last year and welded it shut etc. but with the harsh winter last year and the weekly trips to Plymouth every Tuesday roughly 60 miles round trip and then the trips to Indy from October on which are 200 round trip it just took its toll with the road salt (spray) it even eats the roads up where its been sprayed Its been a thorn in my side since we got it The axle was a noted problem for the Windstar XL and there was at one time a recall for it priced a new one through eBay and was right at $700 without taxes and shipping and then labor on top of that Took it to Ford dealer in Dec. and they came up with over $2000 in maintenance & repairs but friends would not have done - but that did not include the front windshield wipers which I replaced they did list the back ones - did not included the front brakes, rotor & hub we had to replace in if Jan-Mar. nor the gas cap because the idoit light for it kept coming on & for a while the tire idiot light kept coming on but it stopped sometime after June and the gauges have started to "dance" Sad thing is it runs like a scared rabbit and gets good gas mileage
The saying is life "is a bowl of cherries" Things will workout somehow - have no doubts the property is sold if all the legal shut is in order the guy buying it has cash rented (farmed it) for 35 year and his dad before that. he offered to buy it in June while friend was in hospital in Indy but the Adverse possession had not came through that came on Aug. 9th (I was not sure when it would be final i had figured as late as Nov so ahead of game there) legal stuff just takes time.