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@reibur1951

Just an update things moving at a snails pace... but moving i hope in the right direction... will hopefully know in few weeks or sooner things are in progress for purchase of the on piece of property everything has to be re-done title search etc. I keep cleaning, packing etc. There's another house on the market they all line up from south to north from here - new on is in the middle of the other two I liked the first one it was all brick built in about 1959 on level with attached garage and basement and approximately 5 acres with some woods and corner lot on 2 state highways within short distance of town... next came #2 with 1.5 acres, pine trees & other trees, partial basement, detached garage, wood deck surrounds most of the house; open living, dining, kitchen vaulted ceiling and wind turbine power to help with electric (friends choice & son likes the most too & I got to admit it it is still #1 choice) built in about 1972 recently remolded and all appliances washer/dryer frig, dishwasher, microwave and stone, ceiling fans; sits on the corner of state highway & county road... #3 last came up the other day built about 1932 says it is smaller than other, has family room with stone work ( which I love because it was deceased husbands occupation) has frig, stove & dishwasher nothing about laundry appliances ; has a full basement with drive in garage (i think by looks of pics) and out building and 1 acre with some trees sits on the state highway short ways from one of the main entrances into town downfall it is a part of an acquired properties that were annexed into town recently seems it has been broken off as it still is septic & well Son has a CT-scan on Thursday (his last one showed some growth in the lymph node in the arm pit & collapsing behind the tumor in the lung the other lymph nodes remained steady - but it is Stage 4 so anything can happen at anytime...)and next Wednesday his Immunology/drs at IU Medical/Simon Cancer center... he had his 4/6 month check up (lost track would have to go look at calender's) with primary care and he bumped him up to 6 months tomorrow his his 6 month check with his heart dr.... the Van is holding out I think its a sore subject the gauges have started to go crazy at times so holding breath it will last the winter till other things are taken care of... still have friends monument/cremation house to buy that depends on pending property sale as is that house and a lot of other things... The daughter and her husband another story they don't even put forth the effort to pick up phone and see how I am doing or how her brother is doing lame excuses being made as to why... i need to start clean-up outside but have put off because some of their actions Pretty sure every thing is settled on the adverse possession as I got paper work and letter from lawyer saying I can clean etc. just waiting to see if sale goes through as will give me the extra money to really proceed with things... I feel scared and yet I don't I am a black/white person it all has to be in order... I just want to get some of the promise all fulfilled and done with and i know it all take time.... God will provide....

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Hello @reibur1951
So good to hear from you. It does sound like you are making progress, albeit slow. I'm glad to hear that other properties are becoming available that might work for you. That is good news! How is your friend's son doing with his cancer treatment?