Hello, @nmstauffer8
You are doing very well to record the visits and to get as much information as possible. I have had a head and neck cancer in my tongue with surgery and radiotherapy as my treatments but have met many younger people who have had chemoradiation. It is a very tough treatment but from my observation people come through it well. Yes, there are side effects - mainly for the teeth - but these can be dealt with as treatment and recovery progresses. I don't really see the long term effects for a healthy younger person to be a huge problem when you compare it to NOT treating the cancer with the most effective treatment. I hope this isn't too assertive as answer and wish you and your fiancé well.

@nmstauffer8 I'm going to repost from long ago with an update. My husband has undergone 40 sessions of hyperbaric treatment for necrosis of the bone of his scalp and neck, without much improvement. They call this late delay radiation effect. Frankly, they did not think he would live long enough to suffer these long-term effects. The chronic pain he lives with is from the life-time maximum radiation which he received in trying to stop the cancer. If we and the doctors had had a crystal ball, we would have sacrificed the transplanted kidney and gone to immunotherapy in the beginning. He is on Libtayo now, without any side effects.
He also has undergone a genetic test. His oncologist says that there are exciting new treatments coming along soon.
I encourage you to keep those records of visits and treatments.
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ORIGINAL POST: My husband has SCC – spindle. Research shows that the SCC is frequently found in kidney transplant recipients about 2 years in. My husband received a living donor transplant in Oct 2012. The immunosuppression encourages the cancer growth.

It started as a quarter sized lesion on the top of his head summer 2014. His regular dermatologist sent him to a Mohs surgeon. The Mohs surgeries became an almost weekly affair. The Mohs surgeon arranged for us to come to Mayo. In the summer of 2015, the top of his scalp was resected and replaced with a flap at Mayo J'ville. The cancer kept coming. More surgeries and lots of radiation. Finally the surgeon at Mayo said "no more surgery. You have to have a systemic approach, otherwise we are chasing ghosts."

Our focus had been on saving the kidney, because we were told from the beginning that chemo might kill the kidney, and immunotherapy would definitely kill the kidney. Again, the transplant drugs were feeding the cancer, so it Aug 2016 he stopped taking them. We knew that only a very, very small percentage of people can retain the transplant without the drugs. It was only a matter of time. In Sept 2016, he began Erbitux and we came home. The Erbitux had limited sucess on the surface tumors, but the cancer metastasized to include tumors in the liver and diaphragm. Three doctors had told him to go home and they would make him as comforable as possible. His transplanted kidney began to fail in December 2016, and by March 2017 we trained for home hemo-dialysis. We did that for 1 1/2 yrs and then he went in-center because I just could not do it anymore.

In May 2017, a tumor board made up of local doctors met and they decided to try Keytruda which was approved for head and neck cancers. It was a miracle. The PET scans have only shown "pop up" cancers since then. The first of this year he was switched to Libtayo. Libtayo is basically the same as Keytruda, but specifically designed for squamous cell cancers. It was not available when he began the Keytruda.

My husband has not had any detectable side-effects from Keytruda or Libtayo, because they use his own immune system to fight the cancer. Dialysis, while scary in the beginning, is something which 500,000 people live with every day. The pain and general debilitation which my husband deals with are the result of all the surgeries and radiation which lead up to the systemic treatment he has now. I'm not a medical professional by any means, but I encourage you to pursue the systemic treatment if that is what your oncologist recommends.

nmsstauffer,

My sister had tongue cancer 22 years ago. She had surgery at Mayo Scottsdale and at that time she did not need any treatment. 18 years later, it came back and she did not need treatment; but six months after that, the cancer came back somewhere between the nose and the cheek and they could not get to it, so they treated it with chemo and radiation. That took care of the very aggressive tumor. Of course, radiation did damage and she ended having tongue pain that won't go away. Also, her thyroid was affected. Her teeth have not suffered like mine though. But we are alive and we are willing to take the damage with a grain of salt.
For me, the damage was to my jaw, and I have osteonecrosis of the jaw; but my doctor was totally against hyperbaric immersion, and they have been treating me with vitamin E and a medication that improves bone blood circulation. (I think we cannot share medication names in this page), and so far, so good. I have lost three molars due to receding of the gum; but despite dryness of the mouth at nighttime, I have managed to keep a healthy mouth and teeth. I do have my teeth cleaned four times a year and I am meticulous in my cleaning.
I hope this information that seems banal, gives you a perspective of life after radiation. I did not do chemo.
Loli