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Epilepsy & Seizures | Last Active: Jan 24, 2023 | Replies (42)Comment receiving replies
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Cm cafee - thank you for your unique and articulate observations. I always find it difficult when it comes to my own family to express myself well. I have not heard of the types of epilepsy you discussed, however, it is good to know as much as we can especially for future reference and empathy.
Recently, when my daughter started having seizures again (far worse, more numerous) 20 years later, she was told by the neurologist that there was pretty much no chance for control, do not get pregnant-as if she would) and see him again in 4 months. There had been no tests whatsoever, although never having seen her, he had put her on anti seizure meds 5 weeks before by telephone through her G P. Talk about inappropriate behavior by a doctor. In one sentence he was able to take any optimism she had, any hope for a greeter quality of life and smash it. She has become depressed. And while of course we have found new neurogists and they have started testing, he left an impression on her psyche. What on earth are they thinking when they telegraph their excitement of a new condition as with your husband or their depressive negativity to a young woman whose life ls torn asunder by multiple seizures, losing her career, relationship struggles, injuries and leftover confusion around her seizures.
If the care of the new clinic does not work out. We will
Investigate the Mayo Clinic and see if funds could be found to be able to take her there.
I am very glad that your husband has you and that you remain such an excellent advocate, but better yet, a sensitive and kind wife.
Hi @cmcafee, welcome to Connect and thank you for sharing the details of your experience both at Mayo Clinic and your local care facility. I can only imagine how disconcerting it is to medical professionals excitement over the complexity of a diagnosis as if you weren't there or "like a new toy or puzzle."
Staying for an extended period in the monitoring unit is certainly challenging. How did or might have the nurses supported you while you were concentrating on making your husband comfortable and less anxious?
Did you and your husband feel prepared for what to expect during the Epilepsy Monitoring Unit hospitalization?