I too can relate to what everyone is saying. My husband is very independent, still goes to the gym, pays the bills though I do frequent checks, drive and pretty much everything he’s done previously. The hardest part for me is his lack of empathy, he’ll do things for himself without any thoughts of me, he’s clueless of why I might be crying. He hugs me if I approach him and ask him to but doesn’t seem to need the physical contact which is something that is completely opposite of him. I’m beginning to feel more like his parent rather than his wife. It makes me sad. Thanks for listening.