← Return to Adult Life after a Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI)

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Hi, @anncgrl - I moved your post to this discussion so you can read what others have said on life after a traumatic brain injury (TBI) and talk with those who have had similar experiences. Click VIEW & REPLY in your email notification to get to your post.

About your question regarding whether your son would be eligible for Medicaid, this government page may provide some useful information https://www.usa.gov/medicaid.

I thought @jakedduck1 @dawnpereda @lakelifelady and others here may be able to offer you support as you search for answers on the swelling and soreness your adult son has in the area where he suffered the hit when he's under stress. Hoping they can let you know if they've seen this kind of phenomena in themselves or others. @etadams has also mentioned having an adult son with a TBI. @oceanfun1 mentioned suffering from TBI-related emotional outbursts that reminded me of what you talked about with your son's emotional responses at times.

You mentioned your son's explosive rage is much reduced in a calm and regulated environment. What does he do or do you do to promote that kind of environment for him?

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I promote a calm and regulated environment for my son by listening when he rants without comment, going over information with him slowly and with as little hype as possible, making lists rather than anticipating he will remember, encouraging him quietly. I find overstimulatoon to be the key trigger. His tolerance is low and he is easily confused which leads to angry outbursts. It has taken me a long time to recognize my part in our interactions. I have adult ADHD and a quick wit. My form of communication feels like an attack to my son. He is often accusatory and irrational when ranting. I stopped taking it personal, accepted that I cannot have communication with him in a natural way. Of course he has the rest of the world.... ! This is not perfect but it helps.