@etadams I can certainly understand your frustration. My son was a real problem from the day he was born. I was frustrated, sad, and scared. Like he was angry at the world!
Do you have a center for people with disabilities in your area? Your library should have a list of resources. They can help you work thru your plans for his future. Maybe even help him move now when he is young enough to meet and participate with others. And you can get some semblance of your life back.
I really wish you luck. You’ve been on a long, hard road. Becky