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Ostomy: Adapting to life after colostomy, ileostomy or urostomy

Ostomy | Last Active: Mar 24 1:09pm | Replies (419)

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@hodagwi

Prayers and support for good healing and having this resolved. I am facing surgery for both bladder and colon in another month or so. I am ok now and on antibiotics so I don't have an infection before then. Looking back, would you do anything differently? I had 36 stitches for lower bowel removal a couple of years ago and healed ok. Feel lucky about that. Not had a bag then but am now facing two bags in another month or so. Any idea why these complications arose? I am 71 so not a spring chicken but am an old rooster. It will get better.

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I don’t think there is anything I could have done differently other than miraculously realize I was sick sooner and know to demand antibiotics at the hospital, but that’s just not how it works.

It’d have been nice if the surgeons hadn’t waited two weeks to do a third CT scan that prompted them to perform emergency surgery that same night, but that’s just timing. I sort of wish I had pressed harder for the surgeon to be sure about taking my staples out yesterday, but the incision was a nice clean line of healing, so who knew?

What ifs and maybes can’t change anything now. I’m glad we have a plan to implement over the next few days that should kickstart the healing process again. That’s about as much as I can ask for now, I think.

Good luck with your own upcoming surgeries, and thanks very much for your good wishes.