@nallyator19571031 I'm so glad you found this wonderful family! I, too, have been changed for the better by people here, and greatly encouraged when I needed it. Nothing is by coincidence because I was just sitting here choked up about my friend who is gone and decided to jump on here for some support, when I saw your post and smiled. I hope you are able to recover the message you need to - I would check with a moderator and ask - they know everything, seriously. Also, I hope you are able to find community and solace here, friend. Surely glad you're here. Best wishes to you.