@gingerw, Thank you so much for both your very kind words and your super suggestions. These two friends have been my rock and rudder during difficult periods in my life and i am thankful that they call me "friend".

Yes,we Do have a Meals on Wheels here! I delivered meals for them for years and that brought both wonderful and heart wrenching experiences...a daily lesson in what to be grateful for in my own life. However, at that time at least, a recipient had to meet a certain income level; if over that threshold, the request was denied. I will certainly call to ask what requirements have to be met. That service would be a godsend if possible. Thank you and Hugs.