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Talking Frankly about Living with Advanced Cancer

Cancer | Last Active: Jun 18, 2023 | Replies (508)

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@IndianaScott

Good point @burrkay My father created what he called his 'Just In Case' book. It was a three-ring binder with all this type of information in it. I copied that idea and added a few modern touches, which my dad never had to worry about, such as passwords that might be needed, what accounts are autopay, where all my electronic photos are backed up, etc.

I, too, gave a copy to each of our adult children along with a copy of my POAs, et. and have a copy in our home (where they know where it is) so they can have unfettered access to it since it also includes my last wishes. Plus this way I have one copy easily accessible,which I can update as passwords change, accounts close, companies change names, etc.

I agree --- great to be able to share here on Connect!

Strength, courage, and peace!

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@IndianaScott Like you and @burrkay I have gotten all my papers together, back in 2015 when my rare kidney disease diagnosis was given. Each day is another one of gratitude. I filled out a 5 Wishes booklet to indicate my desires, and even wrote my own obituary. Funeral plans made and paid for, and that is included in packet. While it is such a sensitive subject for so many to address, my approach was to extend my kindness to others and make things as gentle as possible for them, thinking what I would like to know if in their shoes (because I have been!). And don't forget to annually or semi-annually review everything if there are changes.
Ginger