Thanks @lbern I married WAY above my pay grade for sure! No doubt about it! I wish that photo had been in color since she had gorgeous green eyes. Side bonus -- she was 100% Italian and could cook up a major league storm plus her grandfather made wine in his basement! Oh, I was a lucky fellow!

I so wish there was some help I could give about helping prepare. Luckily my wife and I were partners in our marriage so we both did most everything, so the handoff of duties during her illness was simpler than say for my mom when my dad passed away and she had never done any bill paying, insurance, etc. etc. That made the transition for her all the more challenging.

I'll do some thinking on this one and again I say thank you for the kind words about my wife.

Strength, courage, and peace!