Judy, I have an idea of how you are feeling. We always tried to get away for our anniversary. It falls on Feb 14 so it’s always been a little extra special to us. This year, our 45th, I am sad to say there was no special trip. My husband no longer recognizes special days and as you said so much is involved in planning. I am so sorry you had to cancel your plans for celebrating all those wonderful events with your husband. Maybe, you could still have a special night? Have you thought of doing something at home…maybe plan a special meal to have catered in with candle light and soft music? Just a thought. ❤️