@bajjerfan I will not watch anything with the infamous "X" in it. I don't need to have may wife acting like those idiots in those flix, just be willing to try some very simple things... wearing some revealing outfit/nightgown. She was raised in a very conservative home, so I understand her reluctance to try new things. She has also gained quite a bit of weight. Her belly is quite large so I can see how that adds to her reluctance.