@ruthannray good advice thank you. But I'm sharing in all of this is dialogue between me and my wife, And our two daughters. We're doing everything imaginable to support them both. It becomes admittedly more challenging when she does not answer her phone, respond to voicemails or to text messages. Despite our best efforts, which are certainly not perfect, we have offered to continue paying for your son's piano lessons, helping with bills, mowing the yard, buying groceries bringing over baked meals. And perhaps more important at all just sitting with them and being there. When we come over she leaves. All very perplexing.