@jc76
I would also like add that I think it is important for patients to educate themselves and understand the research and applicable clinical guidelines. That doesn’t mean practicing medicine on ourselves or telling others what treatment they should have. It means being informed enough to have a meaningful discussion with our doctors and, when appropriate, to ask questions or seek a second opinion.
I experienced this myself. When my biopsy came back as Gleason 3+4, I went to a different medical group and urologist for a second pathology review, partly because I had read Patrick Walsh’s book, which emphasized the importance of confirming a prostate biopsy diagnosis. Their pathologist confirmed the 3+4 diagnosis, but the urologist recommended active surveillance.
I was surprised by that recommendation because my PSA was relatively high, placing me in the unfavorable-intermediate-risk category based on the information available at the time. My genomic test was also still pending. From what I had learned by reading the NCCN and AUA guidelines, active surveillance did not appear to be the usual guideline-supported approach for someone with my risk characteristics.
That experience reinforced for me why patient education matters. I didn’t decide on my treatment based on a book, a podcast, or another patient’s experience. Instead, what I learned prompted me to question the recommendation, look more closely at the guidelines, and seek additional medical opinions which confirmed the need for definitive treatment for my condition. Ultimately, the purpose of doing our own research isn’t to replace our doctors—it is to become informed partners in the decision-making process.
So I agree completely that we shouldn’t tell another patient, “I heard this at a seminar, therefore you should do it.” But I also think we should encourage patients to learn, ask questions, understand the evidence and guidelines, and seek a second opinion when something doesn’t seem to fit their particular circumstances.
@soli
Completely agree with your post. I too was diagnosed with PC. I had not idea of what to do. I was not on MCC at that time.
Mayo diagnosed me and gave the treatment options. My Mayo primary care doctor (who was doing the PSA tests and referred me to urology) wanted me to get a second opinion.
Yes even though he was a Mayo doctor and the urologist was Mayo he said getting a second opinion will help you and I make the right decisions for you.
So I went to UFHPTI for second opinion. What I got was same diagnosis but a different treatment plan. So I discussed this with my PCP and we both agreed that having proton radiation versus photon was best for me.
After I had all that information I started doing research on photon and proton radiation and found that the recommendation my doctor and I were making was matching what the research I was doing on major medical institutions.
Then I became a what about this or that. For some doctors they don't like that but for mine they said sounds like you are doing research and glad to answer your questions.
I agree with your post. Become educated in your physical and mental health and let it guide you of what to discuss with your medical doctors. And I am a strong proponent of getting second opinions.
What I started doing and still do now is use A.I. I use Microsoft Co-Pilot. What I like about Co-pilot is they will give you the latest research on a top and then list where they got the research from and list their web sites.
I was surprised one day when one of the research mentioned was Mayo Community Connect (MCC) on comments and what individuals were experiencing on treatments side affects.