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~ Being Married to a Narcissist ~
Mental Health | Last Active: Dec 17, 2017 | Replies (31)Comment receiving replies
This certainly pushed buttons for me. I was also married to one and now my youngest son has married one-yup, blue pure perfect she is and nothing is ever her fault. I know I survived a mother and husband. No wonder I am in such a funk. I cannot do it a 3rd time. So sad for my son when I see the abuse happening to him again. I rarely go see my 2 year old grandson. I enjoy him so much. I cannot tolerate my DIL and her arrogance. I say nothing. My son's father died in 2014 and I would that it had been me as she believed the sun rose and set on that NPD.
Also had a therapist that was an NPD. Wolf in sheep's clothing is so accurate...she was a pastoral counselor as well.
Sorry, I feel the venom entering my veins. These kind of people destroy lives!!!
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Hi parus .... you really have had a boatload of these "lovely, perfect" people, haven't you? Wow. I wouldn't even think of going back to the NPD therapist you've been to before, but I would find a PsyD (Doctor of Psychology), and get into therapy. I can't imagine having a dil who is an NPD and not having some coping skills .... ways to deal with her - or not. That's the only way I got to the point of really dealing with my now X. You need support, friend ..... give yourself that gift .... you deserve it and need it.
abby