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@madisonman0326 "A urology nurse advised my wife to start shopping for funeral homes - she even had a list of ones she recommended - and she said I should apply for a spot in hospice care."
That is so stupid & irresponsible as to be almost comical. Almost like a car salesman telling you that you needed to replace your otherwise good car because it needed a major repair.
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@madisonman0326 So many of us got the "start preparing to die" speech (or more empathetic versions thereof) with our de-novo stage 4 diagnosis. There are no guarantees, and it's important to remember that some people aren't still don't respond well to new treatment strategies, but the data they're using for life expectancy is OLD.
These days, you're not deluding yourself if you don't just give up after a stage-4 prostate cancer diagnosis. It is entirely reasonable to hope, and to keep imagining yourself living to old age. 10+ years ago, that might have been self-delusional, but not any more.
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