Are you going to a Center of Excellence? Check into it if not. I would recommend going to a male pelvic PT qualified person. A surprising number of doctors don't give a lot of information about the surgery, incontinence, ED, and what to expect. Knowledge is power! A good pelvic PT person can help fill in the gaps. Would have saved me a lot of time and researching if my doctor had recommended a PT person to start. I can post more links if you find these helpful. Good Luck, this is a marathon not a sprint! : )

Some links you might find handy:
https://nafc.org/bhealth-blog/urinary-incontinence-after-prostate-surgery-everything-you-need-to-know/
https://easykegel.com