I am 75 and still masturbate 3 to 4 times a week. After two TURP procedures I had delayed ejaculation and then partial RE where some semen comes out but not much on orgasm. Sex with wife stopped a few years ago and now masturbation is getting a little mundane and need more stimulation. She said sex hurt (have a thick penis) and vaginal atrophy with less lubrication made sex uncomfortable. Looking for ways to get her more intimately involved and hopefully participate even have her watch me masturbate (erotic experience) or join in or if I can ever get her to mutual masturbation to stimulate her and try sex again. Any of you run up against any resistance to suggestions above? Comes down to needing a little more than my own helping hand.