Hello @bdarling82 and welcome to Mayo Clinic Connect. I am sorry to hear about your lack of appetite. This can be common with surgery of the digestive tract. As you are just a week from surgery, you might be expecting too much too soon.
I would suggest that you take a look at another discussion group on Connect, "How Do I Eat After Digestive Tract Surgery." Here is a link to the discussion: https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/how-do-i-eat-after-digestive-tract-surgery/
I began this discussion after three surgeries of the digestive tract over a 23-year period of time. It certainly will be helpful to you to eat small, light meals. Foods like yogurt, scrambled eggs, baked potatoes, etc.
If after your follow-up appointment with your surgeon, you are still having an appetite problem, you might ask for a referral to a registered dietitian at the hospital. I have had several consultations and found them very helpful.
For the healing process, it is important to make protein a priority. I still find myself without an appetite, but I make it a point to eat a small, high-protein meal. Would you try to do the same?
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Yes, I'll try. I've found I do have an appetite for soups. Also, I've experienced some stool incontinence at night, and urgency. I'm having to wear Depends since surgery. I asked my surgeon about this and he said he didn't do anything down below, only reattached my colon. Have you experienced anything like that?