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@gangcarotid1 I actually had laproscopic manual surgery. 4 small keyhole incisions for the lap. Then the surgeon did use an old vertical scar I had at 15 for exploratory appendectomy. Then 10 years later same scar used for emergency c section. Now 35 years later same scar for radical nephrectomy. I couldn't get much rest at the hospital, plus I didn't want it to cost more. I was OK to go home on oxycodone and Tylenol for the pain. First 4 to 5 days were rough. Now I am day ten post nephrectomy on Tylenol when needed. Today was the first day I drove to a Dr. Appt. Then walked a mile through the hospital and parking lot. Lol. Im ok. Waiting on next appts. My pathology was pT1b in the kidney, but clear cell renal cancsr was found in 1 hilarious lymph node. That made is Stage III Grade 3 cancer. I will likely do Keytruda treatments a year. I am unemployed and have an appt to try to get survivor benefits on ex husbands record Aug 10th. The stage and grade may qualify me for disability. Scared about treatments, but more scared of this recurring elsewhere. Heaven forbid in my other kidney. I cry everyday. Hopefully, my anxiety a d depression will ease up after I have appts. With a plan. Thank you for your reply. Im 60 and I think too young to die of cancer. God has a plan for me, I am thankful to him how he has protected me my whole life and especially now.

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You are stronger than you think you are!
Don't try to eat the whole elephant at once; one bite at a time. You'll very likely get real sick of the taste of elephant but tell yourself everyday, "today will be better than yesterday" and generally at the end of each day, youll be able to say "today WAS BETTER than yesterday. I feel your fear. It will be 2 yrs this October since they took the malignancies out of me, but everyday now, I eat for my labs, go 6 mi/30 min everyday on my stationery bike, do isometric/isotonic arm crunches. Im sorry grateful; Im not gonna mess thus up. In April they informed me the small cyst on my other kidney is now "suspicious for neoplasm" and that they very likely will be doing a biopsy when I return in October.
I understand the frequent crying. Its so frustrating, so scary. I try to 'give it to God', but I end up yanking it right back. Sometimes I squirrel away from everyone and play that song "Be Not Afraid" and cry. I try to stay busy, though, and that helps. Sending bundles of love and prayers to you! We can do this!!